Former N.J. cop Philip Seidle sentenced to 30 years in prison for ex-wife’s murder

Former Neptune police sergeant Philip Seidle received a 30‑year prison sentence in Monmouth County Superior Court for killing his ex‑wife, Tamara Wilson‑Seidle, during a domestic dispute in Asbury Park.

Children Plead for Maximum Sentence

Seidle’s eldest children urged the judge to impose the longest sentence possible. They said their father’s actions destroyed their lives.

“I am now an orphan,” Philip Seidle Jr. told the court.

Seidle must serve 24 years before becoming eligible for parole.

Daughter Details Years of Abuse

During sentencing, daughter Kristen Seidle described years of domestic abuse inside the family’s Neptune home. She said her father repeatedly assaulted her mother long before the fatal shooting.

“It was my father who abused my mother — constantly and relentlessly,” she said.

She recalled hearing threats, violence and fear behind closed doors. She also described moments when her mother begged for help.

Monmouth County Prosecutor Marc LeMieux said the children told investigators their father often pushed their mother into walls. They said they covered holes with pictures to hide the damage.

LeMieux added that the youngest daughter, then 7, witnessed the shooting and remains traumatized. She wrote in her diary, “Dad shot Mom and almost got me into a car accident.”

Philip Seidle sentenced: Shooting Unfolded in Broad Daylight

Seidle, then a Neptune Township police sergeant, was off duty when he chased his ex‑wife through Asbury Park with their youngest daughter in his vehicle. He forced her car into a parked vehicle near Sewell and Ridge avenues.

He then fired 12 shots from his .40‑caliber Glock service weapon into her car as bystanders watched. Witnesses said he shouted, “I’m tired of going to court,” before opening fire. Authorities said he also threatened suicide after the shooting.

The couple’s divorce had been finalized 20 days earlier.

Victim Remembered as Devoted Mother

Tamara Wilson-Seidle

Tamara Wilson‑Seidle, 51, was a mother of nine. She was a soccer coach, a devout Catholic and a religious instructor at Mother of Mercy Parish. She was also a five‑year breast cancer survivor.

She died at Jersey Shore University Medical Center shortly after the shooting.

Plea Deal Avoided Life Sentence

Seidle admitted firing the shots during a March 10 court appearance. He pleaded guilty to aggravated manslaughter and child endangerment, which spared him a potential life sentence.

He told the court he had planned to take his youngest daughter to buy a dress for a father‑daughter dance that same day.