New Jersey police reach $4 million settlement with children of woman killed by ex-husband, a former police officer

FREEHOLD BOROUGH, N.J. — New Jersey officials have finalized a $4 million settlement with the nine children of Tamara Wilson‑Seidle, nearly 11 years after she was fatally shot by her ex‑husband, former Neptune Township police sergeant Philip Seidle. The agreement was recently unsealed by a Superior Court judge. It resolves long‑standing claims that authorities failed to prevent the tragedy despite years of documented warning signs.

Settlement Terms Made Public

The settlement concludes the family’s wrongful‑death lawsuit against Neptune Township and the Monmouth County Prosecutor’s Office. According to court filings, Neptune Township’s insurer, Nationwide, will pay $3.75 million, while the prosecutor’s office will contribute $250,000.

The lawsuit, filed in 2017, originally sought $10 million. It argued that officials allowed Seidle to remain on duty and keep his service weapon despite:

• repeated domestic‑violence complaints
• psychological concerns
• internal‑affairs findings that labeled him unfit for duty

A Killing Witnessed by Police and a Child

Wilson‑Seidle, 51, was killed on June 16, 2015, after a violent chase through Seidle pursued her vehicle, forced it off the road, and fired 12 shots into her car. Their 7‑year‑old daughter witnessed the shooting, as did several responding officers who attempted to de‑escalate the situation.

Philip Seidle (Facebook)

Seidle, a 22‑year veteran of the Neptune Township Police Department, later pleaded guilty to aggravated manslaughter and child endangerment. He received a 30‑year sentence and will be eligible for parole in December 2040.

Related: Former N.J. cop Philip Seidle sentenced to 30 years in prison for ex-wife’s murder

Years of Warnings Cited in Lawsuit

Internal‑affairs records released in 2020 revealed a long pattern of domestic‑violence allegations involving Seidle. Several complaints came from his own children. Although he faced multiple suspensions, he repeatedly regained access to his service weapon.

Attorneys for the Wilson‑Seidle children argued that Seidle’s behavior created a clear risk. They described him as a “ticking time bomb” and said officials ignored escalating threats. The lawsuit also claimed the prosecutor’s office knew of prior incidents, including one in which Seidle allegedly held a gun to Wilson‑Seidle’s head.

On the day of the shooting, Wilson‑Seidle reportedly told her daughter that Seidle was chasing her and that she feared he would kill her. Seidle reportedly chased his ex-wife into Asbury Park where she pushed off the road on a residential street before the shooting.

Remaining Claims Against Asbury Park

Although the settlement resolves claims against Neptune Township and the Monmouth County Prosecutor’s Office, litigation continues against Asbury Park and its police department. That portion of the lawsuit alleges that an officer at the scene failed to intervene, despite having the opportunity to act before the shooting.